I’m far from a dating expert. My husband and I have been together a total of 15 years, so I’ve missed out on the whole Bumble and Tinder thing. That said, when my single friends are getting ready for their dates, they still choose to run their outfits past me, which I always find very flattering.
After a decade spent working in fashion, I’ve become acutely aware of the small cues your clothing choices can make on your behalf, whether you know it or not. You need to feel comfortable in your clothes, especially on a date. If you don’t, you’ll hold your body in an entirely different way than how you usually would, which makes it harder for the person you’re with to connect with you. Wearing something that isn’t “you” will send off the wrong signals and completely change the tone of your meet-up. Of course, get it right, and you’ll feel good and confident in yourself, which can help everything else fall into place.
Recently, with the nicer spell of weather we’ve been having, my friends have had an increasing number of park-based dates. This, of course, means there’s a whole host of decisions to be made. Shoes will need to be practical. As for clothing? It needs to strike the perfect balance between being stylish but not OTT and appropriate for your casual outdoor surroundings, without looking as if you’ve made zero effort. It might sound complex, but it can be done. In fact, I’ve found eight foolproof ensembles that tick all those boxes.
From a classic jeans-and-nice-top combination to the skirt-and-shoe pairing that always works, here’s what to wear to a date in the park.
Style Notes: While jeans are absolutely suitable attire for park dates (in fact, many of my suggested looks will feature this staple item), don’t assume this is your only denim option. A cute denim skirt will also work in your favour, and will look sweet worn with everything from knitted twinsets to white blouses.
This colour is a big deal right now.
It also looks great worn against black, as evidenced here.
The perfect summer pull-on.
These low-heel mules will ensure your feet remain comfortable.
Style Notes: Some wilder parks—take Richmond Park, for example—mean uneven terrain, and the last thing you need to worry about is slipping or tripping in inappropriate footwear. Combat this with a pair of, well, combat boots, styled with a chic black sundress.
This dress comes in so many chic colourways.
A hoop never hurt anyone.
The ideal boot for long walks in the park.
Style Notes: Jeans and trainers are ideal for park dates as they’re casual, but if you want to elevate your ensemble, try pairing them with a pretty white blouse.
This will look just as pretty paired with wide-leg linen trousers.
Barrel-shape jeans keep cropping up this season.
One of fashion’s favourite trainers.
Style Notes: Slip skirts might be considered fancy, especially for park dates, but worn with a basic jersey top and a slouchy cardigan, they’re instantly overhauled and give off a luxe low-key vibe.
Buy this a size up if you prefer a slouchy fit.
By Far’s Miranda handbag is on all of our editors’ wish lists.
So chic.
Style Notes: Mini dresses are always a solid option, but midis will allow you to promenade a little easier on your park date. If you’re more likely to wear heels over flats, why not consider a pair of comfortable espadrilles.
Polka dots make for a stylish change from florals for summer.
Iolla creates some of the coolest sunglasses out there.
I love the mix of materials on this handbag.
If you’re looking to invest in a new pair of espadrilles, look no further than Castañer’s iconic pairs.
Style Notes: Sometimes, less is more—jeans and a simple top are effortless to style but, when you stick to one shade, just like Amaka has with her cream-and-white ensemble, you’ll look instantly pulled-together and polished.
The ultimate racer vest.
Such a sleek handbag option.
I’m 5’ 4” and these jeans are the perfect cropped length.
Style Notes: For the days when the temperature is on your side, shorts become a strong park date option. Right now, there are plenty of short-and-shirt co-ords that are flirty and cool in equal measure.
This is the shirt-and-short set I have my eye on for summer.
Dreamy.
I’m always here for elasticated waistbands.
New Balance trainers are so in-demand right now.
Style Notes: Timeless and elegant, tea dresses are the go-to attire for most of my friends when they head out on a date. Just add your favourite gold jewellery and some sandals and you’re good to go.
Let Missoma take all the hard work out of layering your necklaces for you with this sleek design.
This dress comes in an array of summer-ready prints.
If you want to make all of your summer looks more “fashion”, invest in a metallic sandal.
