The year is 2020, and Sally Rooney’s novel Normal People has been adapted into a BBC TV series. Almost immediately, the entire nation is watching, and it isn’t the whip-smart dialogue or the palpable on-screen chemistry of its leads that is the talk of offices everywhere the next day. The internet is sent into a tailspin over Paul Mescal, or more specifically, the gold chain that his character Connell wears. Such is the power of the “internet boyfriend”—the unexpected celebrity crush who manages to be disarmingly attractive, witty, approachable and fashionable at all once. Internet boyfriends are so universally appealing that we can all imagine what it would be like to date them.
There doesn’t appear to be a “type” per se, the genre incorporates everyone from the older “Zaddy” who isn’t new to fame but has undergone a fashionable makeover, to the up-and-comers enjoying their turn in the limelight. Think Jeff Goldblum on the Prada runway, Oscar Isaac wearing New Balance, Jeremy Allen White making chef’s whites a hot commodity and Pedro Pascal wearing, well, just about anything. We are so taken by the internet boyfriend that not only do we want to be with them, we want to rifle through their wardrobes, too.
I hadn’t realised quite how much this aesthetic of dadcore-meets-normcore-meets-Pitti Uomo had infiltrated my subconscious until I took stock of everything I’d bought recently. Somehow, my summer wardrobe now consists of retro trainers, loafers, tailored trousers and plain white tees (I also count no less than six waistcoats), almost exactly in line with the internet boyfriend’s uniform of choice. If you’ve ever googled Idris Elba, Stanley Tucci or Timotheé Chalamet + “style”, join the club. If you’ve bought a pair of tortoiseshell or gold wire aviator glasses in the last two years, you’re a card-carrying member of the crew. Find yourself shopping at Arket, Uniqlo and COS to top up on oversized shirts, straight-leg trousers and blazers rather than minis and florals? You’re one of us.
Unisex dressing is nothing new, and menswear-inspired looks have been a runway mainstay for just about as long as I can remember, but the 2020s undoubtedly belongs to the rugged, fashion-forward A-lister who can show up on the red carpet in nonchalant shorts or sneakers and still make the best dressed list (and wherever there is a lesson in getting ready in 5 minutes but looking it like it took hours, I’m taking notes). Having happily picked out a line-up of the most influential internet boyf’s, below I share tips from their wardrobes, and there’s an easy-to-recreate look for everyone.