I have one very toxic personality trait that gets in my way at work: I don’t take anything at face value. You can imagine how difficult this makes things for me when I’m spending most of my days quizzing beauty experts. I find the more I quiz them, the less I’m inclined to believe what they’re telling me. It’s not something that applies to everyone I work with, of course—my brain just tends to be selective about who it wants to trust. Dermatologists who have spent the better part of a decade training for expert status? I’m all ears. Makeup artists who spend all day every day working with real faces? I want to hear everything. But in all honesty, most of the time, when I’m quizzing experts on all things beauty, I take everything they say with a hearty dose of cynicism.
Before I go into why I’m so sceptical, I’d like to note that there are a whole bunch of experts I have really come to trust over the years, but believe me when I say they’ve given me the benefit of the doubt more often than I’ve given it to them. I just can’t seem to shake my constant eye-rolling and devil’s advocate act. And the reason for this, I believe, comes down to hairstylists who like telling me everything I’m doing wrong with my hair even though they’ve never touched it. I’ve never met a hairstylist who can give my thin, fine hair long-lasting volume—and the stylists I really trust will admit that.
On behalf of all thin-haired women out there, I would like to take this opportunity to beg the beauty industry to stop telling us that we need to buy more styling products. I’ve spent my entire life looking for ways to make my hair thicker, and it wasn’t until I sat down with a brutally honest trichologist a few weeks ago that I finally understood my situation. I’m never going to grow more hair.
The scalp can’t grow more hair follicles. The hair I have is the hair I have, and all I can do is make sure I keep it as healthy as I possibly can. Since learning this, I’ve thought long and hard about all of the money I’ve wasted on styling products designed to make my hair look thicker—products that do wonders for hair that’s already thick but make thin hair look greasy, weighed down and generally worse than it did before. If only I hadn’t hung onto every word of the hairstylists I met in my formative years who, it turns out, were just trying to sell me something.
Luckily, I’m a thin-haired beauty editor who has gotten to work with some of the most in-the-know and honest experts, and I’ve learned some very important lessons over the years. So if you, too, are fed up with receiving useless advice about what to do with your thin hair, keep scrolling for the six thin-hair tips I wish I’d learned sooner.