After working in fashion for the last 7 years, I’d like to think that I’m a confident dresser. By now I know my style, my shape, and the trends that are worth investing in, but even as a seasoned fashion editor, the one outfit that caused me the most deliberation was my wedding day outfit. In the year that gave us Nicola Peltz’ square necked gown and Kourtney Kardashian’s corset mini, there are more options than ever when it comes to wedding dress styles. But the pressure to find ‘the one’ is almost as overwhelming as planning the day itself.
There is an unspoken rule that whatever you wear has to tick several boxes–most commonly, will it make the groom cry? Will it ‘suit’ the venue? Will it still look as good in photos in 30 years time? But in all honesty, my first thought was, “how will I find a wedding dress that reflects my personality?”. As a somewhat ‘anti traditionalist’ bride, the thought of any puffball meringues made me recoil, and I’m not sold on the idea of a veil, so with 8 months to go until the ceremony it was no surprise that I found mine while scrolling through Instagram researching a trends story. But what about the hundreds of other brides who agonise over finding a modern yet classic, romantic yet cool, and trendy yet timeless outfit that really speaks to them? I turned to the experts for advice.
“The key to finding your perfect wedding outfit is choosing a style that makes you feel like the very best version of yourself,” says Kate Halfpenny, Founder and Designer of Halfpenny London. “Feeling ‘bridal’ has nothing to do with a particular style of dress, but everything to do with the emotion wrapped up in that garment so be yourself, whether that’s in a ballgown, trouser suit or mini dress. Research designers that fit your aesthetic and seek them out to try on and have a think about the clothes you already own which make you feel amazing. What is it about those pieces you love? Your own wardrobe is a great starting point!
I love a twist on tradition so a jumpsuit worn with a sheer over skirt, or a beautiful draped edgy corset worn with a Mikado skirt with pockets can have that fashion sensibility and give a nod to tradition but in a totally modern way. Also, veils aren’t for everyone but I really encourage women to try them as a veil can instantly transform even the simplest dress into an epic wedding look.”
With the outfit as the foundation of your look, how you choose to personalise and accessorise it can create a look thats uniquely yours. “When I started GRACE 11 years ago, I found the industry was disillusioned with the structured, traditional wedding “uniform” that dominated the market,” adds Meg Ziems, Founder of Grace Loves Lace. ” I needed a gown that had personality, told my story, and was designed with passion, movement, and luxury in mind, and that is where I draw inspiration from.
At the end of the day, the most important thing when choosing your gown is staying true to your taste. We see all kinds of brides come through our showroom doors, looking for both trend-led and timeless gowns. You can tell when they are asking to try on a certain gown because they love it, and the styles they are asking to try on because it feels on trend at the time or their Mum loves it.They always go with the gown that reflects them and suits their personality so I would say try on the gowns that speak to you the most. I love seeing how brides style our gowns, I think this is where they really make the look their own and can incorporate elements of their style to make the look theirs. Have fun with styling and mix it up between ceremony and reception as they are two very different events in the one day.”
If I’ve learned anything in the wedding dress shopping process its to have fun, and to think about a look that celebrates what will be one of the happiest moments of your life (no pressure there, then). So, in a bid to take the guesswork out of dress shopping and to help newly engaged brides find an outfit that is both fashion forward and unforgettable (for all of the right reasons) I tried on a lot of show-stopping pieces to help you find you the very best. From the coveted designers you already know and love, to the newly launched bridal exclusives and the contemporary bridal boutiques to know now, keep scrolling for the 7 modern bridal brands that fashion brides will adore, plus the accessories to complete the look.